This is such an important question when you’re looking for a partner. Figuring out if the man you’re dating is the right man for you can be confusing!
You may have asked yourself, “Is he the one” because you saw potential, were hopeful, and just didn’t want to give up after investing so much time dating him.
Maybe you considered, “Is he the one” when your relationship was difficult and full of drama, but you still felt hopeful. Looking back you wonder why you stayed as long as you did.
You may have wondered, “Is he the one” when your relationship was actually good, but it didn’t feel quite good enough. There was something missing, but you couldn’t quite put your finger on it.
Let go of the wrong man
Here’s the secret to finding love fast – end things with the wrong man right away. But how can you tell if he’s “the One” or if you should break up with him?
Yes, you’re going to find “The One”!
Even though you may feel frustrated (or even hopeless), please don’t lose hope. I assure you, you are going to find “the one” because the years of love and heartbreak you’ve experienced have taught you valuable lessons you can use to make the right decision this time around. And because I’m going to share some important questions (below) that will help you decide if you should stay or leave.
Your time is valuable, and choosing your future husband is probably the most important decision you’ll ever make, so it’s important to invest your time (and your heart) dating the right man. But how can you tell if you’re in the right relationship (or if you need to move on and stop wasting valuable time)?
15 questions to ask yourself to find out if he’s the one for you:
To make things a little less confusing for you, I’ve put together a list of questions to consider when you’re trying to figure out if the man you’re dating is “the one”? Take your time, carefully consider each question, and really be thoughtful about your answers.
- Is the relationship easy and enjoyable at least 95% of the time?
- Can I trust my partner 100%?
- Can I be myself with him?
- Is he kind?
- Do we have similar life goals?
- Does my partner love and respect me (exactly as I am)?
- Do I respect my partner?
- Do we have fun together?
- Is my partner supportive of my dreams and endeavors?
- Do we share similar values (or if our values differ, can we respectfully agree to disagree and make it work?)
- Do we communicate openly, thoughtfully, and honestly?
- Do I love touching him?
- (If you have kids) Is this union in the best interest of my children?
- Do I feel comfortable and at ease in this relationship?
- And lastly – Do I feel happy in general while in this relationship?
If you answered, “yes” to all 15 questions, you’ve probably got a keeper on your hands!
And if you answered “no” to any of them, you may be wasting valuable time.
When to let him go
Do NOT invest in someone who isn’t fully invested in you.
And don’t EVER stay in a stressful, hurtful, or abusive relationship.
The RIGHT relationship
The right relationship will take some work, but it won’t be hard.
The right relationship will enhance your happiness, not deplete it.
When you’re with the right man, you’ll feel safe, relaxed, and comfortable. And you’ll know he’s got your back, and you’ve got his too.
It will feel so good to finally get it right so when you ask yourself, “Is he the one?”, the answer will be a definitive, YES!
My gift to you!
Want a free copy of my book, Never Waste Time on the Wrong Man Again? You can download it here! Consider it my gift to you.
Wishing you all the best!
xo,
Michelle
